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Friends and Mail

Add friends, see who is online, and send private messages in threaded mail conversations.

Updated Jul 11, 2026 20 views

Friends and Mail are how you keep up with other players: a friends list that shows who is online right now, and a private mail system built around threaded conversations.

Where to find it

  • Friends: /friends/
  • Mail: /mail/ (in the Talk menu, with an unread-count badge)
  • You can also message or friend someone straight from their profile.

Friends

  • Search for players by username (2 or more characters) and send a friend request. If someone declines, cancels, or removes you, no coins or items are involved - friendship is free.
  • If two players send each other requests, the second request auto-accepts the first.
  • Your list splits into Online and Offline. A friend counts as online if they were active in the last 5 minutes. Players who turn off "show online status" in their settings always appear offline, without a last-seen time.
  • From the list you can open a friend's profile, jump straight into a mail message, or remove them.
  • Inviting a brand-new player through your invite link makes you friends automatically the moment they verify their email - see Inviting Friends.

Mail

Mail works as conversations: you start one with a subject and a message, and all replies stay in the same thread.

  • Subjects are up to 255 characters; messages are up to 5,000 characters.
  • There is a short 5-second cooldown between sends to prevent accidental doubles.
  • Every message is automatically screened before sending - anything flagged as inappropriate is blocked and never delivered.
  • Recipients get an email notification about new mail.
  • The recipient picker only shows players you are allowed to contact: blocked players and players with a friends-only private profile (who are not your friend) do not appear.

Your inbox also has a Notifications section that collects system messages (quest rewards, expedition returns, referral bonuses, staff announcements). You can mark everything read or clear it all with one click.

Safety

  • Players under 13 cannot send or reply to mail. They still receive system notifications.
  • Blocking a player (from their profile, or by username in Account Settings) stops mail and friend requests in both directions and hides you from each other's searches.
  • Never share your password or personal details in mail. Report scams or harassment at /report.